Out of desperate, I came to believe in fortune telling. Happened that we went for one and was told that our baby luck is down. I was so skeptical about what he said, as I thought he could be just doing some sales talk out from his prediction.
After discussing with hubby, we decided to go for a second opinion from Jenny the fortune teller whom we used to consult. She was helping us to view the luck for 2012 and at the same time I get her to predict my baby luck. Her words are not optimistic either, all she says was 'NO' your luck is really bad and leave things to fate and try not to ask for more. I was so sad, and I asked what if I really wants a child. She says if you want kid, you will lost your hubby. I knew I can only take her remarks with a pinch of salt. At that moment of time, I really gave up hope and drop the idea of going for IVF. All because of what the fortune tellers told us.
After some serious thoughts, I think I shouldn't listen to what those fortune tellers had told us. If I really follow what they said, then their prediction will come true and we will live without children throughout our life. And that would be very sad for us.
In the end, I decide to proceed with our IVF plan. I knew it will not be easy on myself, but I am willing to try. Even though I could not get the best doctor for myself, but I do hope God can give me his blessing for giving me a child this time.
3 comments:
Good luck and all the best to your BB plan!!
1) do not use any lubricants when making love.
2) after he ejaculated,use a pillow to prop up your back such that the sperm will flow down easier to your system.(ie create a slope).
3) most importantly,relax and enjoy the ML process instead of having an objective in mind (ie I want a baby out from this)
Try these and best of luck to you!
Hope to recieve your good news soon!
Thanks for your advice!
I have done whatever is beneficial for our BB making process but all didn't work. Since I have choosen to go for IVF, hope things goes smoothly and what I can do now is to pray to God for his help and grant us a child soon! =)
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